Hit an Abundance Wall? Why Everything That Used to Work Suddenly Stopped

Pouring everything into one area of your life works.

Until it doesn’t.

At first, the abundance flows. You’re seeing results, you feel lit up, and you think, Finally. I’ve figured this out.

And then one day, it just…stops. The progress that came so easily dries up. You’re doing everything right, maybe even more than before, and nothing is working. You feel stuck. 

I call this hitting an abundance wall.

If you’re standing in front of one right now, I want you to know something: it’s not a sign that you’re failing. It’s not a sign that abundance isn’t meant for you. In fact, your abundance wall is one of the most important messages the universe will ever send you.

I know, because I spent years banging my head against one.

What Is an Abundance Wall?

An abundance wall is the point where abundance stops flowing in an area of your life you’ve been working really hard on, even though you’re still putting in the effort.

It can show up anywhere:

• Health: You’ve been working out and eating well, and you’ve hit a plateau. The scale won’t budge. Your energy is dropping instead of rising.
• Money and career: You’ve been pouring everything into your work or your business, and the growth that felt so exciting has stalled.
• Love: You’ve been working so hard on one relationship, or on finding one, and you feel stuck in the same place.

The tricky part about an abundance wall is that it usually comes after success. That’s what makes it so confusing. It worked before. Why isn’t it working now?

My Abundance Wall: 50 Pounds That Wouldn’t Budge

After my second child was born, I gained weight I could not shake.

And I tried. Oh, I tried.

I worked out. I counted calories. I went to bed hungry, again and again and again. I did everything I was “supposed” to do. 

And the weight would not budge. Not even a little.

And what made this most frustrating? These were all the things that worked for me before.

I felt so stuck. I was doing everything right, and nothing was working. It felt like my body was working against me. Every time I pushed harder, I hit the same abundance wall. 

What I didn’t understand yet was that I wasn’t carrying physical weight. I was carrying energetic weight. And no amount of calorie counting was ever going to move it. 

So I did something different. I stopped pushing harder in the same direction. I started following my guidance and doing energy healing on myself. And over time, I released 50 pounds.

I’ve kept it off for four years now. But honestly, that’s not even the best part. The best part is that I’m never hungry. I healed my relationship with my body around food, and I became an intuitive eater. 

That’s what abundance in my health finally looked like. Not a fight. A flow.

And it only came when I understood what my abundance wall was trying to tell me. 

Why Pushing Harder Won’t Break Through

When most of us hit an abundance wall, our first instinct is to push harder. 

Say you decide to change your body. You start going to the gym five days a week, and you try a new way of eating. And it’s amazing! Your body starts changing. You feel incredible. Abundance is flowing.

If you keep at it, that first year feels so, so good.

Then, somewhere around the one-year mark, you hit the abundance wall. The feel-good results start fading. So you think, Maybe I just need to push harder. Six days a week now. An extra half hour every day. 

Maybe that helps for another month. Then you hit the wall again. And this time your body starts complaining. Maybe your knee starts to hurt. Maybe something else gives out. 

It’s the same with your career. “I’m going to make a huge leap. All my energy is going here.” It feels amazing at first, and then it gets harder and harder to get the same results.

Here’s why: when you feel stuck at an abundance wall, more effort in the same area isn’t what’s being asked of you.

Something else is. 

Your Abundance Wall Is a Message

Then you hit an abundance wall, the universe isn’t punishing you. It’s saying, “Hey, I’m so proud of you for doing this! We’ve got this area pretty good now. Let’s bring more balance to the other parts of your life.”

And most of us respond with, Be quiet, universe. That first year felt great. I know how to do this. Just give me more of that feeling, please.

I get it. The area we’ve been focused on feels easy now, because we’ve practiced it. Turning toward the other areas feels like starting over.

But when we refuse to listen, the universe often slows us down. Suddenly you’re on the couch for two weeks because something happened and you just can’t.

Everything in the universe is working together, like a beautiful symphony, to bring you closer to your truth. To what you’re here to do. To what’s possible for you. 

And true abundance requires balance.

Abundance isn’t just money. It isn’t just health. It isn’t just love. It’s all three. It’s deep self-worth in every area of your life. So when you pour everything into one area and ignore the others, your abundance becomes unbalanced, and eventually it stops flowing.

That’s your abundance wall. 

Abundance Lives in Your Mind, Your Energy and Your Body

There’s another kind of balance your abundance wall may be asking for, and it’s the one that finally explained my weight.

There are three aspects to your being: your mind, your energy field and your body.

Lack usually starts as a thought in your mind. Something you were taught, probably when you were very young. Over time, that thought becomes like a switch that’s been flipped on in your energy field. And eventually, what’s held in your energy field gets stored in your body. It can show up as tension, aches, pains, or weight that won’t move no matter what you do. 

When you work on just one of these, the others begin to shift too. But when you work on all three together, you move through lack and back into abundance so much faster. 

That’s why calorie counting didn’t break through my abundance wall. I was only working on my body. The weight was being held in place by my energy field, and by beliefs in my mind that I didn’t even know I had.

How to Move Through Your Abundance Wall

If you’re feeling stuck right now, here’s how to start moving through your abundance wall and let abundance flow again.

1. Notice where you’ve been pushing. Which area of your life have you been pouring most of your energy into? That’s usually where your abundance wall shows up first.
2. Ask which area is calling you. Which area have you been avoiding, or telling yourself you’ll get to later? Your abundance wall is often pointing you right there.
3. Work with your energy. Choose an energy activation and listen to it daily for three to four weeks. You can even play it quietly while you sleep. Make it an easy yes, so you actually stick with it.
4. Bring your body along. Move while you hold thoughts of abundance. Take a daily walk. Dance for five or ten minutes. As you move, think about the abundance you’d love to bring in. My body feels light and energetic. Abundance flows to me easily in every area of my life.
5. Clear the beliefs in your mind. Get curious about what abundance actually means to you in money, health and love, and what beliefs might be standing in the way. (I walk you through my full step-by-step process for this in my article on clearing abundance blocks here.)
6. Go slow. You don’t have to rebalance your whole life this week. Slow and steady wins the race. 

A Quick Abundance Wall Check-In

Take a moment right now and ask yourself these three questions:

1. Where in my life have I been doing everything right, but still feel stuck?
2. Is it still feeling as good as it did in the beginning, or have I hit an abundance wall?
3. Which area of abundance (money, health or love) have I been neglecting?

Be honest. There’s no wrong answer.

This doesn’t mean you can’t spend a year focusing hard on your body or your business. You absolutely can. But if something that used to feel amazing now feels like a grind, it simply means you’re being asked to bring more balance to another area.

That’s not failure. That’s guidance.

One the Other Side of the Abundance Wall

When you stop pushing and start listening, something beautiful happens. The abundance that felt stuck starts to flow again, often in ways that surprise you.

For me, it meant finally listening to my body instead of fighting it. It meant releasing 50 pounds I couldn’t move any other way. And it meant something I never expected: freedom around food, and a body that feels abundant. 

Your abundance wall isn’t the end of the road. It’s a doorway.

And on the other side is more abundance than you’ve ever experienced, in every area of your life.

Ready to move through your abundance wall? The Divine Alignment Energy Activation helps you clear what’s been stored in your energy field and bring your mind, energy and body back into alignment, so abundance can flow again in every area of your life. Experience the Divine Alignment Energy Activation free, here.