How I Deal with HatersFeb 24, 2023
Someone left a comment on one of my posts saying I hope I was using the term “hate” in a marketer’s sense, because no one would knowingly send me hate.
Then she proceeded to send hateful energy with her words for like one thousand paragraphs.
I FEEL energy DEEPLY in my body.
When you speak, interact or write with me, I can FEEL if you are triggered and you “HATE” me in that moment.
I’ve felt that way towards others, many times in my life, and I’m not judging.
What I will say is this: when you speak your truth in public or online, your real, real, truth. There will be people who are deeply triggered and will send you actual hateful words.
In this case, with this woman, she did not send me hateful words. She did tell me why I was wrong and she was right.
This is actually not possible, as all perspectives are valid and right, at all times. Your perspective depends SOLELY on your frequency. Your current perspective is giving you an opportunity to expand into the next higher frequency.
When we are willing to see beyond what is true in our current perspective, we ascend and expand into the next stage of potentiality for ourselves.
When we insist that we already know everything there ever is to know, then we stagnate.
Life is not meant to be that boring!
No, I don’t like it when people tell me I am wrong, because I am no more wrong than they are.
I try REALLY hard never to judge others anymore, as I KNOW all of our paths are unfolding divinely. And judgment of others is ACTUALLY judgment of myself, as we are all mirrors.
When I am triggered, I ask myself, “What can I learn from this? How am I being called to expand?” instead of thinking of ways I can prove the person who triggered me wrong.
But to say that no one would send me words of hate, means that from your perspective, you have NO experience of speaking your truth to the world. People like me who speak their truth deal with HATERS. I get horrible vicious words thrown at me, that are not sent with best intentions.
Not often, but it CERTAINLY happens.
And it hurts me.
Because I’m simply being me.
And when you are AUTHENTICALLY you, there will be some that do not like that, because they’re not yet authentically them.
The fear of other people judging us stops so many AMAZING souls with important purposes from speaking their truth.
It stopped me for YEARS, because I knew that not everyone would get it.
It’s no longer stopping me, and this feels like FREEDOM.
To be able to use my words, straight from my soul, without editing, without adding “MARKETERS” words (which make me want to gag and I do NOT do, ever) is EVERYTHING.
This is life.
You, with your big shiny purpose, that often scares the crap out of you, did you know that you are strong enough to weather any storm that life brings you?
That your purpose is bigger than you?
That you too can handle whoever doesn’t like the AUTHENTIC, REAL you?
Well, you can.
I know this because it was like my literal biggest fear that other people wouldn’t like what I say.
And if I can handle this, then so too can you.
And blessings upon blessings, when you speak the words of your soul, there will be many more supporters than haters. You will create a community that supports each other, that lifts each other up. Who are YOUR soul tribe.